For Your Pleasure

FACT: Masturbatory Progress

Scientific records show that in 1953 - 67% percent of women preferred masturbating by rubbing their vulva, 20% most enjoyed inserting fingers or some other object into their vagina, 11% stimulated the eternal opening of their urethra and 2% used rhythmic pressures with their thighs.

I have to wonder how those number would change now that women can freely buy sex toys on line, at home parties and in progressive women owned/operated sex toys business? And when will humans stop defining sex as penetration when clearly sex for the female body encompasses so much more than just their vaginal opening? Women have achieved great sexual progress but we still have a long way to go. How do we get there? By touching ourselves!

Rock Chic: Clit & G Spot Harmony

The Rock Chic is a velvet soft, yet very solid C-shaped toy that is incredibly unique. The ergonomically curved shape is designed to create a direct connection with both your G spot and your clit. This toy can be tricky to get the hang of. Even the most experienced toy user (me!) had a bit of a learning curve (bad pun!). When I first tried the Rock Chic I turned on the subtle vibe, popped it into place and felt like the internal G spot end was too long and deep for the placement of my G spot. Somehow the connection element was not working and I attributed it the fact that I am a petite women and perhaps it was built for women of a different size? I was honestly disappointed. But the truth about any sex toy is that you may need a few experiences with it to figure out how to manipulate the toy to get the most of it with your body. With the Rock Chic the answer is right I the name. You need to really ROCK it. Sort of rolling it over and around your pelvic bone. This way the clit side, with it’s smooth bumps give a rhythmic touch to your clit while the firm G spot curve massages the length of your G spot. Once I figured out the rhythm of the toy, not only did it create and incredible connection between my clit and G spot, it had me squirting in ways that I have only experienced in the hands of partner. My entire pelvis was engaged in the play. Very cool!

INSPIRED IDEAS: You can rock it your hand as describe above. Or you could put it inside your body and sit on a solid chair or soft bed and rock your hips. Some people feel the mini bullet that comes with the Rock Chic is too subtle. You can always swap it out with a stronger bullet or, because the Rock Chic is silicone and silicone transfers vibration like no other material, I found I could set my favorite vibrator right up against the Rock Chic for earth shaking orgasms. For a little sensation play you can submerge the silicone part (taking the vibe out first) of the Rock Chic in hot tap water to warm it up or chill it on the shelf in your fridge for a cool sensation.

SPECS: It’s pink. High quality, non-allergenic, medical grade silicone. No phthalates, not sticky and has no smell. The mini bullet is solid plastic with a single speed, subtle vibration. The vibe uses 3 button batteries that are included. External length 5”. Internal length 4”. Girth 3.5”.

CLEAN IT: The pink, silicone section is waterproof so you can freely soap it up, submerged it in water and rinse clean. You can wash the pink portion on the top self of your dishwasher. Or submerge it in boiling water for 2 to 3 minutes to sterilize it. The mini bullet should not submerged in water. Wipe the bullet clean with a damp wash cloth or, for more through cleaning, wipe it with a cotton ball that is damp with rubbing alcohol.

NOTES: Designed and made in the UK. Has been featured in Cosmopolitan Magazine.

Sex in the News

THE TECHNOLOGY OF ORGASM

It all started by accident, after researcher Rachel Maines – while looking into the history of needlepoint – came across ads for vibrators in early 20th century magazines. Soon thereafter, she discovered one of the more profound episodes of the device’s generally unknown history: in Victorian times, doctors would use them to perform a questionable medical treatment for hysteria, relieving a patient of her symptoms by bringing her to climax. Now film makers have brought this fascinating story of female sexual evolution to the big screen! (via filmstew.com)

AGE SEXY

The survey of 3,000 Americans aged from 57 to 85, published in the ultra-respectable New England Journal of Medicine, found that age played a smaller part in sexual activity than attitude. You are as young, and sexy, as you feel. (via UK Times)

BANG COCK IN BANGKOK / THAILAND CONDOM TESTERS REQUIRED

A thousand amorous Thais have applied for 500 positions to volunteer to test condoms for customer satisfaction, a firm said on Wednesday, as part of a campaign promoting safe sex. Condom volunteers must be Thais older than 20, it said, adding that "no educational qualifications are necessary". (via Independent Online, South Africa)

WOMEN ARE RECLAIMING THEIR BODIES

Abi Sanon was seven days old when she went under the knife. Growing up in Burkina Faso, she thought all women had part of their clitoris cut out in an age-old custom practiced in various forms in much of Africa and parts of the Middle East. But the new reconstructive surgery being performed here now is the first to attempt to reverse circumcision and allow women to regain some sexual sensation. (via alernet.org)

ASK DUCKY: Addicted to my sex toy?

Will my vibrator make me less sensitive or make it harder for me to orgasm with my partner?

How deep is my love? Opps! I meant clitoris.

A beautiful little (3 minute) film by fine artist and body activist Betty Dodson. (via Susie Bright)